I Hope You Dance (song)

Many of us from time to time think that we are trapped in a  cretin  situation. We feel that there is no way out. We have done tried every option and nothing has worked. We allow people to have power over us, and change our attitude anytime that person, place, or thing, is seen, mentioned, thought about, etc.. We do what we do because that is what we are used to or avoids confrontation. Don’t be afraid of confrontation if it is for the right reasons. You should always stand up for yourself, no matter what but also know how to admit when you are wrong. I understand that things in this world are scary, and some things are, but even if you just got yourself to rely on, at least you have someone. If you are living a life you don’t want to, then get out. There is no reason that you cannot. You can make excuses until you are black and blue in the face but not doing something because another may not like it, is not excepted. People may have children, elderly family, money problems, etc.. but if you really want to get out you will, and you wont let nothing stop you. I understand that everyones situations are different, and you are right, but that just means there are more options around the excuses you keep fronting. I see people all the time that don’t move on or live there life there own way because of someone or something. I see 2 people living together that hate each other. I see 2 people living together that has not told the truth since day one. I see 2 people living together because only one has money. I see to 2 people living together just because one is afraid to death the other would hurt/kill them even if they thought about leaving. I also see these people working around those  obstacles to have the life they want. I know we can’t see the future to tell if our decisions are the right ones to be making but Lee Ann Womack sings in her song “I hope you dance”;  “I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance, Never settle for the path of least resistance, Living might mean taking chances but there  worth taking, Loving might be a mistake but it’s worth making”! That is so true. If we don’t make  cretin decisions and choices and put them into action, we will never know the outcome. If you want to do something then do it, If you want to be with someone then be with them. =)

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