Everyday Abuse! Some of you may wonder just exactly what am I taking about by that statement. In fact it is very simple. I am not talking about Child Abuse, Spouse Abuse, Senior Abuse, etc.. I am just simply talking about the simple abuse of everyday life. There are so many people out there that Judge, Put Others Down, Tease, Torture, Make Fun Of, etc… That is the kind of abuse I am talking about. In reality it is just as bad if not worse that any other kind of abuse. The U.S.A. has such a high suicide rate it is just awful. The human race is just down right disgraceful and cruel. I mean there are still some good people left in the world, but unfortunately there is not enough to help. There is just way to many that are so cruel. They only look out for No.1 and that is it. Then they complain when they get treated the way they treat others. Well, I say just getting treated badly back is not enough, but that is just my opinion. I just really wish that these ignorant cruel people would grow a heart, a personality, a self-esteem, and step back and look at what they are doing to other people!

I am working on getting my Degree in Psychology so I can be a Psychiatrist, and a Law Degree so I can be an ADA, a Prosecutor, or a Judge so that I can help fight these people in the world and help the ones who have been targeted by these abusers. I only hope that my dedication and passion for helping these people, and stopping the others will help inspire people to stop not wanting to get involved, and try to make a difference. Because it is not fair to only act when it happens to you or someone you care about. 


KE$HA (Photo credit: Becky-Sullivan)

We R Who We R. That is just plain and simple. On account of Religion, Society, Peer Pressure, Judgmental People, etc.. we cannot be who or what we want to be. We are always hiding behind doors and hiding the truth from people about who we are. That has a lot to do with a bunch of problems in everyday life. They say “If you cannot even be honest with yourself, how can you be honest with anyone else”. Well, what about if you are already honest with yourself but cannot be honest with other people. We are afraid of being treated different, we are afraid of being judged and that is why we do this. I no longer do. I have found that it is extremely hard to be honest with everyone but really who cares. I mean we have one life to live and we have to live it for ourself, not for or through anyone else. No, it may not be easy, and yes you might get treated different, but in the long run it is all worth it. There is no reason to live in secrets. Yeah, I wish it was an easy route, but anything worth having is worth working for, and being able to live the way you want to without judgment, and without being treated different, that is worth so much more dedication then we can really give. I hope that anyone who is living in secret, afraid of being judged, being treated different, thinking someone wont love you if they knew the truth; I wish with all my might that you will find a way to reveal those secrets, to stop being afraid of being judged or treated different, to always know that there are people in this world that will love you NO MATTER WHAT, and just live your life. On account: We R Who We R!

Memories are not recycled like atoms and particles in quantum psychics, they can be lost forever. – Lady GaGa

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What is a friend anyways? In today’s society can we even be sure what a friend is? I mean; I have always heard “keep your friends close and your enemies closer” but it is getting harder by the day to keep track of who we are supposed to keep close and who we are supposed to keep closer. A friend to me is someone who is family. Someone who I can call at 3am for no reason and they talk the rest of the night. A friend to me is someone who would never judge me or my decisions. Someone who is always there for me through thick and thin. Almost like a husband or wife. Yet there are friends that will look us in the eyes, smile real big, and talk to us all day, and they are putting more knifes into our backs then our enemies are. That is really and truly sad. It is very hard to spot these friends because they are masters of disguise and illusion. If you keep having drama in your life, secrets being spilled, information being leaked, and so on.. then you have one of these kinds of friends. I cannot explain how much it pains me to see a friendship go sour after so much energy, time, money, sleepless nights, etc.. has been put into it. These kinds of friends are social terrorists to us, they really are. Because they will come in, be the best person you know, gain your trust, get you to spill everything to them, get you to run to them in a time of distress, then be the one at the end of the road with the lighter fluid and the matches. 

I Hope You Dance (song)

Many of us from time to time think that we are trapped in a  cretin  situation. We feel that there is no way out. We have done tried every option and nothing has worked. We allow people to have power over us, and change our attitude anytime that person, place, or thing, is seen, mentioned, thought about, etc.. We do what we do because that is what we are used to or avoids confrontation. Don’t be afraid of confrontation if it is for the right reasons. You should always stand up for yourself, no matter what but also know how to admit when you are wrong. I understand that things in this world are scary, and some things are, but even if you just got yourself to rely on, at least you have someone. If you are living a life you don’t want to, then get out. There is no reason that you cannot. You can make excuses until you are black and blue in the face but not doing something because another may not like it, is not excepted. People may have children, elderly family, money problems, etc.. but if you really want to get out you will, and you wont let nothing stop you. I understand that everyones situations are different, and you are right, but that just means there are more options around the excuses you keep fronting. I see people all the time that don’t move on or live there life there own way because of someone or something. I see 2 people living together that hate each other. I see 2 people living together that has not told the truth since day one. I see 2 people living together because only one has money. I see to 2 people living together just because one is afraid to death the other would hurt/kill them even if they thought about leaving. I also see these people working around those  obstacles to have the life they want. I know we can’t see the future to tell if our decisions are the right ones to be making but Lee Ann Womack sings in her song “I hope you dance”;  “I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance, Never settle for the path of least resistance, Living might mean taking chances but there  worth taking, Loving might be a mistake but it’s worth making”! That is so true. If we don’t make  cretin decisions and choices and put them into action, we will never know the outcome. If you want to do something then do it, If you want to be with someone then be with them. =)

Humans and problems go together like bees and honey. That is not a person in the world that does not have a problem/problems. No matter your race, wealth, smarts, etc.. we all have  problems. Some problems are small are require a little attention or effort to fix and some problems are huge and take a great deal of effort, attention, and support to fix. Fixing a problem can be a problem its self if not done correctly. Most people just don’t want to put forth the effort it requires to fix the problem. We also make excuses like: We can’t, We don’t know how, etc.. Well if people would just analyze the problem at hand and look at all of their decisions they have and take a step back from the mirror and consider the outcome and/or consequences of their decision then the right one might just come to them. Yeah, we all make mistakes and that is just another way that we can learn and become smarter and stronger. Yet, some people make the same mistake or bad decision for a situation 4 or 5 times before they realize, and for some it make take the most horrible thing that could happen to them to happen before they realize. That is just sad because we all have the ability to fix a problem the right way with few or no bad consequences /outcomes. Now some just don’t want to hear the truth and they get mad, angry, sad, etc… That just means you made the right decision. We cannot just sit around and be depressed about something that we have no control over but we may be able to better the situation if we look at the “bigger Picture”, All of our options, and visualize the outcome. I cannot tell anyone how many people I have seen be going through what seems to them to be the worst problem in their life, and set around depressed about stuff they have no power/control over and be saying “I just don’t know what to do”; and the best most simplest answer would be right in front of their face.  Just alway remember to view the “Bigger Picture”, Look at all of you choices, and  visualize  the outcomes of you decisions/actions, and you may be  surprised  of the outcome.

Religion is so over rated and so misunderstood. A lot of people are religious in the word, and sooner or later they start to doubt their religion for whatever reason. That makes my wonder: “Why does people start to doubt their religion”? Then all I do is step back and look at how many religions there are in the word and how many of them think that their religion is the right one to follow. I look at how many groups there are in the world trying to create their own religion, and their own version of the Bible. The truth is that there are many of what people call Gods, there is Jehovah God, The Roman Gods, Greek Gods, The Titans, Muhammad, Shakti and Shiva, and ect.. that people believe in and worship. There are also so many versions of what people call the Bible and there are religions that have their own specific Bible. No one surely expects someone to just believe their religion is the right one, follow it, and never question it; with all these other religions in the world and so many different Bibles. Everybody preaches that their Bible and their God/Gods/Ruler is the right ones and presents so much evidence that it is the correct one to follow. Truth be told; if you give someone a topic and enough time to research it, they will come up with reasons why that is the way it is; but that does not make it right. We all know and understand that humans do what humans want to do. Someone may put a gun to our head and try to force us to do something, but if we don’t want to do it; we are just not going to do it. We all want what we want, and we all believe in something, even if that something is nothing. but that is no reason to judge or persecute someone just because they believe something different from you do. We have so many ended friendships, relationships, marriages, and even wars over religion and it really should just not even matter. Then again that is why this world is in such turmoil now. Instead of everyone just setting, wishing, praying, and wanting the world to be a better place, why not just try to make it a better place yourself. No one has promised us that we are going to be alive in the morning and no matter what you believe, time is off the essence and something that we don’t have to spare. Everyday we live, is another day that our flesh bodies are

English: Religious symbols from the top nine o...

English: Religious symbols from the top nine organised faiths of the world according to Major world religions From left to right: 1st Row: Christian Cross, Jewish Star of David, Hindu Aumkar 2nd Row: Islamic Star and crescent, Buddhist Wheel of Dharma, Shinto Torii 3rd Row: Sikh Khanda, Bahá’í star, Jain Ahimsa Symbol (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

dying and NO ONE wants to be that 70-year-old man or woman setting there staring out the window try to figure out where they went wrong in life. Just everyone needs to try to have an open mind and understand that it is not an awful thing for someone to believe in something different from you do. Just believe in, and do what you feel like is the right thing to do, and just live your life.