Posts Tagged ‘life secrets’

Sometimes people feel lost inside, like they have no idea what to do in life or that they have no purpose. Those people could not be more wrong. Everyone has to have a purpose in life because of the terms “God makes no mistakes”, and “Everything happens for a reason”. Even if you don’t believe in those sayings, just simply look around you. There are so many problems in the world and so much bad, and you wish that you could do something about it. Well, the most simplest thing make the biggest difference. You don’t have to be a Doctor, Scientist, Astronaut, etc… to make a difference or have a purpose. Every mother has a purpose, everyone that has given a compliment has a purpose, etc… I have been down in the dumps myself and have felt like I have no idea why I am alive or what purpose I could serve, and then it hit me. I am a good writer, so I wrote. I am a supporter of the Gay community, so I started supporting more. Just simple thinks like that made me feel better about myself and my life. Then when people started reading my stuff and telling me how much it helped them, I felt even better. It is not about how big or small something is that you do, it is just that you do it, that counts. There are so many opportunities in this world, and so few people use any of them to help themselves or anyone else. There is always someone who has it worse than you do, and there are people who truly have no options or opportunities. There is really no reason to be depressed or down in the dumps, or contemplating if life is worth living, even though we all have our reasons and our stories. Most everyone is guilty of being or feeling this way and it is truly okay and understandable; we are human after all. Yet, if we would just step back from the mirror and take a look at the bigger picture, we may just turn our lives around, and maybe the lives of others. 


What is a friend anyways? In today’s society can we even be sure what a friend is? I mean; I have always heard “keep your friends close and your enemies closer” but it is getting harder by the day to keep track of who we are supposed to keep close and who we are supposed to keep closer. A friend to me is someone who is family. Someone who I can call at 3am for no reason and they talk the rest of the night. A friend to me is someone who would never judge me or my decisions. Someone who is always there for me through thick and thin. Almost like a husband or wife. Yet there are friends that will look us in the eyes, smile real big, and talk to us all day, and they are putting more knifes into our backs then our enemies are. That is really and truly sad. It is very hard to spot these friends because they are masters of disguise and illusion. If you keep having drama in your life, secrets being spilled, information being leaked, and so on.. then you have one of these kinds of friends. I cannot explain how much it pains me to see a friendship go sour after so much energy, time, money, sleepless nights, etc.. has been put into it. These kinds of friends are social terrorists to us, they really are. Because they will come in, be the best person you know, gain your trust, get you to spill everything to them, get you to run to them in a time of distress, then be the one at the end of the road with the lighter fluid and the matches.