Posts Tagged ‘Philosophy’

The Way We Are

Posted: October 3, 2013 in Uncategorized
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It has been said time and time again that “God makes No mistakes”. I don’t believe some people out there get that. So, let’s try a different approach. Religion is one of the biggest causes of destruction in the world today. Why?, you ask. Well, that is simply because everyone thinks their “shit” is the best. Nothing else is right or better. Now you can’t say this is not true unless to don’t believe in anything or do anything. People have freedom to believe what ever they want and people have grown accustom to certain things and that is okay as long as you have an open mind or take in every aspect of a situation and not judge someone or a situation. There are not many people like this at all in the world unfortunately. People say that they are the way they are because of their teachings growing up or their environment. Now this might be true, but I personally can say that does not stop you from believing in something else or change your view on a situation.  Now if you believe in God: He breathed life into human beings and he said that he loves all his children. Now if he makes no mistakes and loves all his children, and he is perfect. How can being Gay be wrong or other races are wrong, or black and white people being together is wrong. Well, it can’t be. Sorry, it can’t be right. Now if you believe in something else or nothing at all; you people should be the most open-minded people in the world but you’re not. I still know plenty of people who disagree with certain aspects of a situation. Now that’s fine once again as long as you look at the whole picture and not just portions of it. It’s not right to accept your child being gay but not accept that their partner is Black, Asian, Mexican, Jewish, Catholic, Bla Bla Bla…. It don’t matter. We are all made of the same thing and of the same race: (HUMAN). So there is no need to be judging people because God forbid if you had to walk a mile in their shoes. There are many more aspects that could come into play here like: Satan, Misconception, Misunderstandings, other Gods, and so on but at the end of the day. You don’t have nothing hand written form them saying what is right or what is wrong and even if you did, how would you prove it? Anyone with a little common sense can show you something in a book, do a little talking, throw in a few real world examples and say it is the right way and the only way. 


Speaking the Truth

Posted: September 16, 2013 in Uncategorized
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Saying what you really mean may be hard for some people, but that has always made me ponder. I mean if people would just come out and say what they really mean, there may not be as many problems as there are now. I understand for some that they are afraid of hurting someone’s feelings, but I think that putting up a front, hiding behind something, avoiding the subject, etc… is worse than the truth and hurting someone’s feelings. They say “the truth will set you free”, well that is what everyone wants… to be free. So I say telling the truth would help everyone accomplish that goal. Now we all have had good reasons to say one thing and do another, or tell a small lie in the favor of good, but that could just cause more problems than it solves in the long run. Now some people are just “PLAYERS”, they are just there to get whatever they can from you, regardless. Those are the worst people in the world, I think. Because really, I mean, In my book “Abuse” is one of the worst things you can do in this world, and that is just another form of abuse. Now there are others that put up fronts or hide behind something just because they are afraid of loosing what little they already have or getting hurt. It would be nice to know the outcomes of all our decisions, but we don’t and if we don’t put forth the effort and truth it, we will never know. There are still a few things in this world worth taking chances for, but if you’re not going to be honest with yourself or anyone else, then you may as well not even take that chance because you will fail. I only hope that people will find comfort in the truth, then in a blanket of lies…..


KE$HA (Photo credit: Becky-Sullivan)

We R Who We R. That is just plain and simple. On account of Religion, Society, Peer Pressure, Judgmental People, etc.. we cannot be who or what we want to be. We are always hiding behind doors and hiding the truth from people about who we are. That has a lot to do with a bunch of problems in everyday life. They say “If you cannot even be honest with yourself, how can you be honest with anyone else”. Well, what about if you are already honest with yourself but cannot be honest with other people. We are afraid of being treated different, we are afraid of being judged and that is why we do this. I no longer do. I have found that it is extremely hard to be honest with everyone but really who cares. I mean we have one life to live and we have to live it for ourself, not for or through anyone else. No, it may not be easy, and yes you might get treated different, but in the long run it is all worth it. There is no reason to live in secrets. Yeah, I wish it was an easy route, but anything worth having is worth working for, and being able to live the way you want to without judgment, and without being treated different, that is worth so much more dedication then we can really give. I hope that anyone who is living in secret, afraid of being judged, being treated different, thinking someone wont love you if they knew the truth; I wish with all my might that you will find a way to reveal those secrets, to stop being afraid of being judged or treated different, to always know that there are people in this world that will love you NO MATTER WHAT, and just live your life. On account: We R Who We R!

I Hope You Dance (song)

Many of us from time to time think that we are trapped in a  cretin  situation. We feel that there is no way out. We have done tried every option and nothing has worked. We allow people to have power over us, and change our attitude anytime that person, place, or thing, is seen, mentioned, thought about, etc.. We do what we do because that is what we are used to or avoids confrontation. Don’t be afraid of confrontation if it is for the right reasons. You should always stand up for yourself, no matter what but also know how to admit when you are wrong. I understand that things in this world are scary, and some things are, but even if you just got yourself to rely on, at least you have someone. If you are living a life you don’t want to, then get out. There is no reason that you cannot. You can make excuses until you are black and blue in the face but not doing something because another may not like it, is not excepted. People may have children, elderly family, money problems, etc.. but if you really want to get out you will, and you wont let nothing stop you. I understand that everyones situations are different, and you are right, but that just means there are more options around the excuses you keep fronting. I see people all the time that don’t move on or live there life there own way because of someone or something. I see 2 people living together that hate each other. I see 2 people living together that has not told the truth since day one. I see 2 people living together because only one has money. I see to 2 people living together just because one is afraid to death the other would hurt/kill them even if they thought about leaving. I also see these people working around those  obstacles to have the life they want. I know we can’t see the future to tell if our decisions are the right ones to be making but Lee Ann Womack sings in her song “I hope you dance”;  “I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance, Never settle for the path of least resistance, Living might mean taking chances but there  worth taking, Loving might be a mistake but it’s worth making”! That is so true. If we don’t make  cretin decisions and choices and put them into action, we will never know the outcome. If you want to do something then do it, If you want to be with someone then be with them. =)